How do you freaks find me?

So I was getting ready to go to bed and I happen to log into myspace just for kicks. I read this message from this girl who claims she WAS engaged to this guy that I was seeing earlier this year. As it turned out he was too good to be true. Mannie suggested I ditch him and long story short I did.

Seeing her email made me curious as to what she was referring to, so I looked at moe's flickr page. Funny how seeing things after you put them behind you will just piss you off again.

Just as I was soothing myself down for the night I get all wound up again. The question is ~ do I want to take on this drama? I mean, if I was a girl that WAS engaged to that guy, I personally, at least as an instant reaction would want my questions answered. But then I would think about it and wonder, "Do I *REALLY* want to know the answers to the questions I'm asking?"

Despite me trying to leave my drama behind me, it seems to find me somehow. Here's her message:

Hi. My name is CHICK* and I was engaged to LOSER*. Our engagement was on hold for these last several months while we worked things out. I was searching for some things online and ran across your flickr page. There are several pictures of the two of you together back in January. We were still together at that time and needless to say I'm a little shocked at what I saw. I recently ended our relationship, but I just wanted to know a little bit about what happened. Did he ever tell you about me? At one time I had my suspicions that something was going on with him but I ignored it. Turns out it was true. We were even together on New Year's Eve and it looks like he was then with you less than 2 weeks later. I'm not at all accusing you because I get the feeling that you had no idea that he was with someone already. I just want some answers so that I can have some closure about all this. How long were you seeing each other? When did it start and end?

I have no intentions of bothering you at all, I just want to know what was or is going on. If he deceived you like he did me, I am sorry that you had to go through that. He is very smooth and will tell you everything you want to hear and then some. He was too good to be true. We have been together since Jan 06 and we got engaged in March 06. We were best friends for months before we even dated. For the first couple months of this year he was acting strangely toward me so this would explain some of that. I truly believed that we were working things out and it was understood that we were still exclusive. He assured me several times that he wasn't seeing anyone.

I hope you can find this as a kind e-mail and not an accusatory tone.

Thank you for any insights you might have.

*NAMES have been changed, blah blah blah

She sounds like a smart girl, at least she understands the simplicity of forming coherent sentences and paragraph structure. She even said thanks. I know this one time when i was 22 I found out that the man I was seeing was married. I tried to tell the wife, but she didn't want to hear it. I ended things with him of course, but he really didn't like what I did to his life after that.

Seeing that email seems kinda like the same story 10 years ago. I didn't know the LOSER was engaged, but he did have some issues that just didn't fly with me. The only difference now is that I found out 5 almost 6 months after the fact while before I found out while I was dating the married guy. I'm sure Ally, Rach, Mannie and Danny can back me up on the LOSER boy stories.

Whatever. It's something to think about.